Girlfriend

Hi, I need help- I think my girlfriend is cheating on me, she’s suddenly too busy to hang out with me and she started encouraging me to spend time with other people. If she ever left me my whole life would fall apart :( What is the best way to be sure that a person is cheating?

Hi, Andrew.

As a girl, I would say she’s not certainly cheating on you. Her behavior may, and it’s highly likely that it does, display she doesn’t have as intense feelings for you as she used to have. The cheating itself only sometimes follows that.

The feelings can be revitalised. But since your question is how to detect cheating, I’d try to come up with an answer to that. I think if she begins to hide her messages, phone calls, new acquaintances from you, that’s a pretty bad sign.

Maybe you should consider buying some audio/video recorder?

What exactly do you mean by that?

You can buy e.g. http://www.detective-store.com/pen-micro-hd-camera-esonic-cam-3hd-916.html or http://www.detective-store.com/minature-audio-video-camcorder-esonic-cam-u7-700.html and you will be sure

do you think it is a good idea?

Yes, I used it a few times, it’s very simple and pen camera is also very pratical. Just put it on a table and you will hear everything. What’s more both devices have motion detection

Thanks, everything is clear now :)