Learn the Second Conditional

My family are still live together is the best thing since sliced bread.To be honest ,After i read the story of Cinderella in a young age,Everytime my parents got fierce quarrel ,i was afraid they divorced and i would be taken care by stepmother.

that s so difficult to get along with my own sisters ..imagin to have step oneee…oh god forbidon

most of the step families do not have good and frienly relation with each other i know

luckily i live with my real parents & siblings
so dont know how it could be
but have a friend who lives with her stepmother
she is really nice & kind
her father remarried after his wife passed away
& actually i dont like be a stepmother :(

I’m lucky I don’t have a stepparent or stepsiblings. I think it’s difficult having them rather than your real family. Some may enjoy having it, especially when they get along with each other.

thanks God cos i don’t have stepparent or stepsibling . if i have a stepmother i will be friendly with her and i try combine the families . in fact i hate the word of divorce because it is the cause of all these bad things . i feel the pain of all unhappy children from the divorce . i want to tell all the adults who’s suffer from this problem don’t make an issue of it . if you want be happy just make this life easy

If you really love a person you have to love her kids as well. You have to make it your duty to appeal to the kids, you have to earn their trust and love; then you go for the big move..propose to their mom!. Once you’re officially their mom’s husband you should never see them as stepkids. they’re you kids now. You could never physically replace their father but you could love them even more, and they can be happy around you.

thanks god , i don’t have stepparent or stepsiblings ,

stepfamilies make the life more complicated if the kids are young because young kids need care, attention and protection all the time . and nobody can do this job as thier real mother 

but if the kids are adult they can hold that easier .

there are many evil stories taking about stepmother . but i think the life isn’t like that  nowadays … there are so many stepmothers deal her new kids more than their real mother . it’s not a rule it’s depend on the person

not all stepmothers are evil , some of them very kind and helpful .

i think it’s difficult to have stepfamily if the stepmother or stepfather wasn’t broad-minded and respectful

i don’t have stepfamily..and i don’t want..
we are  big family al hamd allah, so i don’t need more siblings…^^
 i can’t imagine my home without my dad or mom…

 i dont stepfamily but i think that is OK!

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no no no way

i don’t have stepfamily ,,but  i think  it very  diffcult and complicate to bond with new  family ,,and in same time very hard  to  see  you father or mother  with new partner ,,and also not easy to call  a new person as mom  or dad ,because you  have  one mom and dad.  and  no  one ever  can replace  them (love my mom and dad)

I don’t have a step family.
Unfortunately we are not that perfect, but I think If I had a step family I don’t have any doubt about myself won’t get along with them, 

Hey all…
Nice comments… :)
I wanna add something too…

According to me…
Every Relation starts from ‘Zero…’
But Step Relations… starts from ‘Negative Values…’
They need time to prove themselves to reach even at ‘Zero…’

What I saw & judged is that…
it’s something that’s already having hate or differences…
If they wanna build understanding & love…
They must finish the hate & difference that already exist in hearts…
& then the new phase of their relation starts…
but unfortunately I didn’t even find 30% of them being successful…
It may be a ‘Narrow Estimation…’
but it’s according to what I found…

So according to me…
They both… Step Parents… & as well as Step Kids…
they both should be so Space Giving… Accepting… & Caring…
that they could live together happily…

It’s true that Step Relation can never ever take the place of the Real or Primary Relations… but still… ‘Something’s better than Nothing…’
& it’s upto us… that we make this something in our favor or against of us…
If we make it in our favor… that’s the best…
Otherwise… Life’s already so complicated…
& if we make them against of us… complications will only increase…

& Now answering the questions…

1… I’ve got no step relations…
All of my relations are Real & Primary…

2… It’s obviously so tough to have & to adjust Step Relations in your life…
cuz most of us are already having hate & differences with them…
If it’s not so… then it’d not be so difficult…

3… I’d give them space first… to prove to me what they deserve…
then I’d accept to treat them as they deserve…
& then I’d care for them… even more than what they deserve…
& I believe… even an animal can be your friend if you do so…
then why can’t a human…???

Well…
I wish all beyond the best of luck to those who have Step Families…
Be Caring… if they’re not being so…
Then one day you’ll see… your care will change them to be caring… :)
Take Care…
Be Happy…
Stay Blessed… :)

1. I agree that She is true

salam really i wanna make family soon my ALLAH help me and  help all

When I was child, I don’t like to have stepfamily. But when I was an adult so make me more experience. I understand with them. Everyone should to deserve with a new chance in life.